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Truly Said ….

April 29, 2009 Leave a comment
    “A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes”. The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.”Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things – family, your loved one, your children, your God and your friends, that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your career, your money, bank accounts, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else-the small stuff. “If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. If you put pebbles first there is no room for the golf-balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small things, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical check-ups. Take your partner out to dinner. Spend more time with your loved ones. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. There will always be time to earn that extra dollar.” Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
Categories: Random Thoughts

April 28, 2009 Leave a comment

It has been a while since I expressed on this blog,

Few months back I was brooding and crying and all broken, there was  not a single day when I had not remembered him and hated him for all that happened.

But guess what He’s back in my life ,He always was there but it was me who had rammed all the doors on him, But one day It was my state of solitude ,grief   and endless pain which I was going through  at work and in my personal life enforced me to him.

Once I spoke to him ,I can’t believe all my hatred was  unleashed and I felt free of all the bitterness I had reaped for him, I just don’t know why I did this or why I felt this way .

Do I still Love Him?? I don’t  know  😦

But he stills claims that he loves me so much !!

Iam not sure if I have to believe him or not !!

Then I think how does it really matter now .Since then there is not a single day when he has not called me.

I feel like I can’t live without speaking to him…I really feel incomplete and uneasy if I don’t speak to him